Comments on: We're All On The Same Team, Aren't We?

By: We’re All in This Together | WEGO Health Blog

We’re All in This Together | WEGO Health Blog — Wed, 12 Nov 2014 12:38:41 +0000

[…] create a unity between the different “types” and the unique journeys everyone faces? In her post, Multiple Sclerosis Health Activist Cathy reflects on her experience with the disconnect within her […]

By: shifrachester@gmail.com

shifrachester@gmail.com — Wed, 12 Nov 2014 12:38:24 +0000

Oh, thanks Andrea. You are so right about harsh comments hurting. But as we age as guess SOMETIMES (not all) we get a little smarter about handling certain situations.

By: shifrachester@gmail.com

shifrachester@gmail.com — Wed, 12 Nov 2014 12:37:26 +0000

Thanks, Linda. After our conversation about being introverted I'm not good at handling confrontations. But as we age I guess we do gain some wisdom. So taking a step back and thinking about it really helped me! xo

By: Carpool Goddess

Carpool Goddess — Wed, 12 Nov 2014 12:08:26 +0000

She sounds like an angry, miserable person and the light you strive so hard to have and to bring to others is too much for her, but that's not your problem. It's hers. There will always be someone who is unhappy for someone else's happiness or strength. You handled this beautifully :)

By: Andrea B.

Andrea B. — Wed, 12 Nov 2014 09:44:59 +0000

Your words and strength are both beautiful and admirable. It's so hard to stop and realize that what someone is expressing IS usually about them. I'm sorry you had such a harsh comment, they can sting, and you're entitled to react and feel hurt or slapped in the virtual face, so to speak, because of what she said. But not wallowing in it and freely responding like this? Shows so much strength. Thank you for sharing.

By: shifrachester@gmail.com

shifrachester@gmail.com — Tue, 11 Nov 2014 23:58:27 +0000

You are so kind in your comments, Jackie, and I deeply appreciate it. People like you, my friend, inspire me to do better and I thank you kindly.

By: Jackie

Jackie — Tue, 11 Nov 2014 23:17:00 +0000

You really are one of a kind. Your ability to put yourself in her shoes is what makes you stand out from the crowd.

I agree that being part of a community --- any community, but certainly a supportive community --- is better than walking alone.

Keep up the good work AND the positive attitude. It will not only help you, but others as well.

By: shifrachester@gmail.com

shifrachester@gmail.com — Tue, 11 Nov 2014 21:39:12 +0000

Thank you, my dear. But those are also the qualities that you possess, and ones you have taught me since childhood. Over and over again. xo

By: Deb

Deb — Tue, 11 Nov 2014 21:31:35 +0000

Responding with love, compassion, empathy and support for her shows just how big a heart you have Cath. xo

By: shifrachester@gmail.com

shifrachester@gmail.com — Tue, 11 Nov 2014 20:51:49 +0000

Thanks, dear friend. You and I are our own community, and I feel blessed in having that!

By: Lisa @ Grandma's Briefs

Lisa @ Grandma's Briefs — Tue, 11 Nov 2014 17:36:09 +0000

No truer words than this: "... being part of a caring community is healthier than wallowing in anger." It's unfortunate the one leaving the comment has not yet found her place in a caring community. They're out there. Her best spot to start is in yours. Good luck to her.

By: shifrachester@gmail.com

shifrachester@gmail.com — Tue, 11 Nov 2014 15:51:32 +0000

Oh, thanks so much Lois. I will be me always, and you will always be your bubbly, lovely self. But do me a favor. Be careful of those cuties on motorcycles! Just joshing. xo